Trauma is a killer; unhappiness is the grim face of neurosis, and neurosis is the trigger initiating almost every human condition. We encounter illness because we are already ill, sick with the neurosis born of emotional deprivation. And we are deprived because our parents were deprived, or our siblings, or our elders, through ignorance, through circumstance, through neglect.
We must uncover and disarm the nature of our emotional wounds, quantify our stunted development and strive to understand the complex nature of our psychological inheritance. If we fail, then we fail not just ourselves but our children and our successors in this world; we suffer and spread emotional trauma, which feeds the neuroses that upset the balance of our human destiny; and pain, illness and grief are the contagion of ignorance.
This is not a religious or a spiritual matter; it is a matter of social and psychological development, and I believe we are all jointly responsible for our societies' emotional growth and social health. Our prisons are full of people with emotional wounds, drawing attention to their crisis in the only way they know how, through violence, outrage and disorders of every kind. We blame drugs; but narcotics are the refuge of neurotics, and we are fast running out of prisons....
Thursday, May 31, 2007
hold on..
This world, this world is cold
But you don’t, you don’t have to go
You’re feeling sad you’re feeling lonely
And no one seems to care
You’re mother’s gone and your father hits you
This pain you cannot bare
But we all bleed the same way as you do
We all have the same things to go thru
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Your days you say they’re way too long
And your nights you can’t sleep at all (hold on)
And you’re not sure what you’re looking for
But you don’t want to know more
And you’re not sure what you’re waiting for
but you don’t want to know more
But we all bleed the same way as you do
And we all have the same things to go through
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Don’t stop looking you’re one step closer
Don’t stop searching it’s not over...
hold on
What are you looking for? What are you waiting for?
Do you know what you’re doing to me?
Go ahead...what are you waiting for?
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Don’t stop looking you’re one step closer
Don’t stop searching it’s not over...
Hold on...
maybe things get better..
maybe things goes to past..
maybe... jsut maybe..
life is meant for greater heights..
soar higher.. rise above..
dont waste life?
hmm...
But you don’t, you don’t have to go
You’re feeling sad you’re feeling lonely
And no one seems to care
You’re mother’s gone and your father hits you
This pain you cannot bare
But we all bleed the same way as you do
We all have the same things to go thru
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Your days you say they’re way too long
And your nights you can’t sleep at all (hold on)
And you’re not sure what you’re looking for
But you don’t want to know more
And you’re not sure what you’re waiting for
but you don’t want to know more
But we all bleed the same way as you do
And we all have the same things to go through
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Don’t stop looking you’re one step closer
Don’t stop searching it’s not over...
hold on
What are you looking for? What are you waiting for?
Do you know what you’re doing to me?
Go ahead...what are you waiting for?
Hold on...if you feel like letting go
Hold on...it gets better than you know
Don’t stop looking you’re one step closer
Don’t stop searching it’s not over...
Hold on...
maybe things get better..
maybe things goes to past..
maybe... jsut maybe..
life is meant for greater heights..
soar higher.. rise above..
dont waste life?
hmm...
worries
worries..
a burden off my chest..
a new one arises..
challenges my faith & beliefs..
got it off..
new ones comes in..
push me off limits..
overcomed it..
new ones again..
tried my best..
yet new ones once more..
a vicious cycle..
a long journey of endless misery..
overworked..
overloaded..
over commitments..
overjoyed too?
contradictions..
nth more den contradictions..
nth more den me..
a burden off my chest..
a new one arises..
challenges my faith & beliefs..
got it off..
new ones comes in..
push me off limits..
overcomed it..
new ones again..
tried my best..
yet new ones once more..
a vicious cycle..
a long journey of endless misery..
overworked..
overloaded..
over commitments..
overjoyed too?
contradictions..
nth more den contradictions..
nth more den me..
regrets regrets..
school..
all too late to change..
nth matters but hard work..
what can i do about it?
fight on? work hard?
i missed too much to cont...
am i right again??
someone prove me wrong pls..
i need help..
i need motivation..
i am inspired by the technology..
but IT?
oh please..
im screwed..
no interest.. cant catch the balls..
cant drop?
im dead..
my darling's school is dying too..
i wish i was in her shoes..
to work for her sake..
i can handle hers..
i udnerstand them..
more or less..
but mine..
all too alte for changes..
work double hard to catch up??
im so done for this sem...
all dead..
arhs!!!!
never should i have skipped..
but den again..
it was for necessary's sake?
i guess?
more or less?
oh well..
what can i say..
im screwed..
but den again..
maybe i can catch up..
but den again..
i dont even need this diploma..
but den again..
i proved myself wrong again..
but den again..
when have i ever done right..
when...
all too late to change..
nth matters but hard work..
what can i do about it?
fight on? work hard?
i missed too much to cont...
am i right again??
someone prove me wrong pls..
i need help..
i need motivation..
i am inspired by the technology..
but IT?
oh please..
im screwed..
no interest.. cant catch the balls..
cant drop?
im dead..
my darling's school is dying too..
i wish i was in her shoes..
to work for her sake..
i can handle hers..
i udnerstand them..
more or less..
but mine..
all too alte for changes..
work double hard to catch up??
im so done for this sem...
all dead..
arhs!!!!
never should i have skipped..
but den again..
it was for necessary's sake?
i guess?
more or less?
oh well..
what can i say..
im screwed..
but den again..
maybe i can catch up..
but den again..
i dont even need this diploma..
but den again..
i proved myself wrong again..
but den again..
when have i ever done right..
when...
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
life greatest..
Don't pretend you're sorry
I know you're not
You know you've got the power
To make me weak inside
And girl you leave me breathless
But it's okay
Cuz you are my survival
Now hear me say
I can't imagine Life without your love
And even forever
Don't seem like long enough
Every time I breathe I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep drowning me in your love
Every time I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
Baby I can't help it
You keep drowning me in your love
Maybe I'm a drifter Maybe not
Cause I have known the safety
Of floating freely in your arms
I don't need another life line
It's not for me
Cuz only you can save me
Oh, can't you see
I can't imagine
Life without your love
And even forever
Don't seem like long enough
Every time I breathe I take you in
And my heart beats again
Baby I can't help it
You keep drowining me in your love
Every time I try to rise above
I'm swept away by love
Baby I can't help it
You keep drowning me in your love
life's greatest happiness is finding love.
one that appreciates who you are and makes you better..
one that stays and stands by you through times when you need it most..
one that is true and innocent to its meanings and virtues..
one that is honest and pure..
life's greatest happiness.. is finding.. you... my love..
________________________________
爱你, 不是因为你的美和影
我越来越爱你, 每个眼神触动我的心
因为你让我看见forever 才了解自己,
未来这些日子 要好好珍惜
爱我 有些痛苦有些不公平
如果真的爱我 不是理所当然的决定
感到你的呼吸在我耳边
像微风深情 温柔的安抚,
我的不安定 所以我要 每年研究你的笑容
wo~~ 多么自然
forever love forever love
我只想用我这一辈子去爱你
从今以后, 你会是所有
幸福的理由
爱情, 是场最美最远的旅行
沿途遇经泥泞 偶尔阻碍我们的前进
感到你的体温在我怀里 像阳光和煦
巧妙的熔化 我的不安定
不可思议 证明我爱你的理由
wo 多么自然
你感动的眼睛,
我沉默的声音,
仿佛就是最好的证明
就让我再说一次
i love you ~~ 直到永远
oh forever love
forever love
forever love
life's greatest heartache is losing those that matters..
those who made you who you are..
those who you appreciated and felt sorrows for losing..
those who once made an impact in your life..
left a smile or a tear..
life's greatest heartaches is losing the friends that matters..
and losing the love that once held dear...
i will never lose you vivien.. never..
i will never let you go..
but life's unpredictability leaves no second chance..
sorry to those i have left a tear in..
sorry to those i have hurt and left heartaches
sorry to those that once mattered..
im sorry...
shi-ne
oppression, suppression..
a verge of cerebus..
my feelings so deep
regret, forget..
incur the fury of life..
a life so gone & down
depression, obsession..
the thin line that lies ahead..
im walking towards it
endure the wrath of nature's full-fledge strider..
time.. the magnifest of everything within..
bear the snares of its griting teeth..
as it lays concealed of its bemused victim..
the flaring storms of time draws deep wounds...
bleed and heal.. but time wavers on..
a mere rock can turn wall..
a hard-rock with nowhere to turn
asset.. liability..
which makes the call?
a guilt or a blessing.. im lost.
objection.. rejection..
the final move that ends it all..
who has the rights to make that call
optimistic.. utopia..
a simple hope lights the way
leaving forkroads of similar consequence
the weariness and tiredness of trying..
the pillage of goods seized from the 7 seas..
the honour and righteousness challenged by time itself..
the anguish of lost pain and sufferings..
the anguish of frozen bones and buried bodies..
the anguish of a much long forgotten memories..
regret? too late. lost? no chance.
burdened? too often. dead? no time.
shi-ne. it means to die.
a verge of cerebus..
my feelings so deep
regret, forget..
incur the fury of life..
a life so gone & down
depression, obsession..
the thin line that lies ahead..
im walking towards it
endure the wrath of nature's full-fledge strider..
time.. the magnifest of everything within..
bear the snares of its griting teeth..
as it lays concealed of its bemused victim..
the flaring storms of time draws deep wounds...
bleed and heal.. but time wavers on..
a mere rock can turn wall..
a hard-rock with nowhere to turn
asset.. liability..
which makes the call?
a guilt or a blessing.. im lost.
objection.. rejection..
the final move that ends it all..
who has the rights to make that call
optimistic.. utopia..
a simple hope lights the way
leaving forkroads of similar consequence
the weariness and tiredness of trying..
the pillage of goods seized from the 7 seas..
the honour and righteousness challenged by time itself..
the anguish of lost pain and sufferings..
the anguish of frozen bones and buried bodies..
the anguish of a much long forgotten memories..
regret? too late. lost? no chance.
burdened? too often. dead? no time.
shi-ne. it means to die.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
counter force
ok. i sensed that my previous entry was kinda emo..
thus...
Awesome funky & hippy song.
perfect to cheer one's mood. :)
thus...
Four years you think for sure
That’s all you've got to endure
All the total dicks
All the stuck up chicks
So superficial, so immatureT
hen when you graduate
You take a look around and you say HEY WAIT!
This is the same as where I just came from
I thought it was over
Aw that’s just great
The whole damn world is just as obsessed
With who‘s the best dressed and who‘s having sex
Who‘s got the money, who gets the honeys
Who‘s kinda cute and who‘s just a mess
And you still don’t have the right look
And you don’t have the right friends
Nothing changes but the faces, the names, and the trends
High school never ends
Check out the popular kids
You’ll never guess what Jessica did
How did Mary Kate lose all that weight
And Katie had a baby so I guess Tom’s straight
And the only thing that matters Is climbing up that social ladder
Still care about your hair and the car you drive
Doesn’t matter if you’re sixteen or thirty-five
Reese Witherspoon, She’s the prom queen
Bill Gates, Captain of the chess team
Jack Black, the clown
Brad Pitt, the quarterback
Seen it all before I want my money back!!
The whole damn world is just as obsessed
With who’s the best dressed and who’s having sex
Who’s in the club and who’s on the drugs
Who’s throwing up before they digest
And you still don’t have the right look
And you don’t have the right friends
And you still listen to the same shit you did back then
High school never ends
High school never ends
Awesome funky & hippy song.
perfect to cheer one's mood. :)
Journal
hmmm...
past week..
work work..
did my PP most of the nights..
work 1,3,5
met my darling almost everyday..
school... sucking my energy dry..
the pressure...
the coming days..
the coming datelines..
supressed..
lost..
confused..
anxiety..
mixed feelings..
not much have happened recently but..
much thoughts run by..
those who knows knows..
those who dont its ok..
thoughts are mere thoughts..
a mind boggling situation where the endless contradictions are seen.
the pros & cons so called, "Weighed"
but nothing can be weighed..
not situations..
its subjective..
its perception..
its biased..
romance..
brain cells dying..
trying... but failing..
disappointed 2 times already..
no more i promise..
no more i hope..
just need more..
i expect more myself..
i expect more from myself..
you are so sweet..
you are genuine unlike the b****..
i treasure u & love u..
but sth seems wrong..
i seem to have lost it..
why..
why.. i ask myself..
how could i..
the pressure?
the past?
i need a hug..
i need your love..
i need reassurance..
i need recognition..
i need you..
so much... so much.. so much..
work's fine & fun... but seems like managers disagree....
some mistakes here & there.. mostly table numbers..
bad memory coming back to me..
laziness coming back to me too
skipping school..
hibernating at home..
dependance on romance..
prioritised first..
lacking time..
need more time..
for friends, for family, for myself, for love..
missing so much now..
bball... prata.. seafood.. chom chom.. stargirl... jamming..
so much to do..
so little time..
so screwed..
:(
past week..
work work..
did my PP most of the nights..
work 1,3,5
met my darling almost everyday..
school... sucking my energy dry..
the pressure...
the coming days..
the coming datelines..
supressed..
lost..
confused..
anxiety..
mixed feelings..
not much have happened recently but..
much thoughts run by..
those who knows knows..
those who dont its ok..
thoughts are mere thoughts..
a mind boggling situation where the endless contradictions are seen.
the pros & cons so called, "Weighed"
but nothing can be weighed..
not situations..
its subjective..
its perception..
its biased..
romance..
brain cells dying..
trying... but failing..
disappointed 2 times already..
no more i promise..
no more i hope..
just need more..
i expect more myself..
i expect more from myself..
you are so sweet..
you are genuine unlike the b****..
i treasure u & love u..
but sth seems wrong..
i seem to have lost it..
why..
why.. i ask myself..
how could i..
the pressure?
the past?
i need a hug..
i need your love..
i need reassurance..
i need recognition..
i need you..
so much... so much.. so much..
work's fine & fun... but seems like managers disagree....
some mistakes here & there.. mostly table numbers..
bad memory coming back to me..
laziness coming back to me too
skipping school..
hibernating at home..
dependance on romance..
prioritised first..
lacking time..
need more time..
for friends, for family, for myself, for love..
missing so much now..
bball... prata.. seafood.. chom chom.. stargirl... jamming..
so much to do..
so little time..
so screwed..
:(
War
the war presses near..
time pass by and the preparation seem in disarray..
the enemy seems ready..
ready to pounce on the dying men..
yet morale is low..
strength is weakened..
days draws near to the coming war..
all hope seems lost but a lonely torch in the icy snow..
"light it up. the beacon of hope"
commanded the leaders of the pack..
yet it just seems to late..
its all too late for the last minute preparations..
its all too late for the reinforcements to arrive..
you have to depends on ourselves now..
to improvise to the situation..
preparations seems ready.. but it is not..
food seems enough.. but it is not..
water seems to suffice.. but it is not..
the war seems to depend on this battle.. but it wont..
there are two to be determined..
two so important and close..
both battles to be won..
no tears is expected..
no heartaches or disappointment..
with the coming war that draws near..
what preparations are left undone..
may just be undone...
the war..
the victory..
the lost..
it all lies within the days..
time..
so important..
so dead..
time pass by and the preparation seem in disarray..
the enemy seems ready..
ready to pounce on the dying men..
yet morale is low..
strength is weakened..
days draws near to the coming war..
all hope seems lost but a lonely torch in the icy snow..
"light it up. the beacon of hope"
commanded the leaders of the pack..
yet it just seems to late..
its all too late for the last minute preparations..
its all too late for the reinforcements to arrive..
you have to depends on ourselves now..
to improvise to the situation..
preparations seems ready.. but it is not..
food seems enough.. but it is not..
water seems to suffice.. but it is not..
the war seems to depend on this battle.. but it wont..
there are two to be determined..
two so important and close..
both battles to be won..
no tears is expected..
no heartaches or disappointment..
with the coming war that draws near..
what preparations are left undone..
may just be undone...
the war..
the victory..
the lost..
it all lies within the days..
time..
so important..
so dead..
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Sunday, May 20, 2007
5 different people
there are only but 5 types of people in this world
1) Nice & stupid
2) Nice but too smart
3) normal & boring
4) Stupid Jackass
5) Smart jackass
a recent psychological test shows that 40% of people falls within the range of normal but boring, 15% at cat 1, 18% at cat 2, 23% at cat 4 and only 4 % at cat 5. THERE ARE RARE CASES FOR SMART & JACKASS! :)
most people in life are boring and normal, better defined as simple. rarely are there smart people, being jackasses ( i know one. Mr Foo!) and a good misture of the rest. thus, life is easy.
you see a jackass, just run. theres always a better choice. :)
there are never short of men out there.
better yet, there are never short of chances & opportunity in every corner up for grabs.
why waste time trying to fix a bad problem good.
move on to the better and work with it.
a Teens Magazine survey conducted last month indicates..
52% of the world's population are described as UGLY while 36% of the world's poulation are described as average and only 12% are seen as beautiful.
be it a handsome boyfriend or pretty girlfriend, be it an ugly relative or a pretty, good hearted one.
move on with life.
dont be stagnant.
dont be stuck.
move...
on..
1) Nice & stupid
2) Nice but too smart
3) normal & boring
4) Stupid Jackass
5) Smart jackass
a recent psychological test shows that 40% of people falls within the range of normal but boring, 15% at cat 1, 18% at cat 2, 23% at cat 4 and only 4 % at cat 5. THERE ARE RARE CASES FOR SMART & JACKASS! :)
most people in life are boring and normal, better defined as simple. rarely are there smart people, being jackasses ( i know one. Mr Foo!) and a good misture of the rest. thus, life is easy.
you see a jackass, just run. theres always a better choice. :)
there are never short of men out there.
better yet, there are never short of chances & opportunity in every corner up for grabs.
why waste time trying to fix a bad problem good.
move on to the better and work with it.
a Teens Magazine survey conducted last month indicates..
52% of the world's population are described as UGLY while 36% of the world's poulation are described as average and only 12% are seen as beautiful.
be it a handsome boyfriend or pretty girlfriend, be it an ugly relative or a pretty, good hearted one.
move on with life.
dont be stagnant.
dont be stuck.
move...
on..
爱的主旋律 & Can you feel the love tonight
男：是你在那个雨季 走进我生命 带着一点任性 和温柔的表情
女：是你在那个雨季 赶走了孤寂 温暖的笑容 换我仅有的甜蜜
男：天上一万颗星星我却只看见你 你说这是幸运 还是不可思议
女：身边有太多风景 我却停在这里 说我傻的可以 还不是因为你
男：是你的声音
女：带给我勇气
男：恋爱的频率
女：直到我心底
男：如果你愿意
女：是的我愿意
合：带着我幸福的主旋律
男：从前的实际
女：现在我相信
男：天空会放晴
女：爱会更甜蜜
男：如果你愿意
女：是我的愿意
合：爱的主旋律
__________________________
There's a calm surrender to the rush of day
When the heat of the rolling world can be turned away
An enchanted moment, and it sees me through
It's enough for this restless warrior just to be with you
And can you feel the love tonight
It is where we are
It's enough for this wide-eyed wanderer
That we got this far
And can you feel the love tonight
How it's laid to rest
It's enough to make kings and vagabonds
Believe the very best
There's a time for everyone if they only learn
That the twisting kaleidoscope moves us all in turn
There's a rhyme and reason to the wild outdoors
When the heart of this star-crossed voyager beats in time with yours
And can you feel the love tonight
It is where we areIt's enough for this wide-eyed wanderer
That we got this farAnd can you feel the love tonight
How it's laid to rest
It's enough to make kings and vagabonds
Believe the very best
teenage rape
Rape is a form of assault where an individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. Most experts believe the primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim rather than an attempt to achieve sexual fulfillment. They consider rape an act of violence rather than principally a sexual encounter.
Rape is generally considered one of the most serious sex crimes and can be very difficult to prosecute. Sexual violence can also be a war crime under international law. Consent may be absent due to duress arising from the use, or threat, of overwhelming force or violence, or because the subject is incapacitated in some way such as intoxication and/or underage innocence.
A United Nations report compiled from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of rape or attempted rape were recorded by police annually. The reported data covered 65 countries, including Africa, Singapore, China and even New Zealand. However most rapes-61% are not even reported to police. One factor relating to this is the myth that rapists are strangers hiding in bushes. In reality 38% of victims were raped by a friend or acquaintance, 28% by "an intimate" and 17% by another relative. Only 16% were committed by a stranger to the victim. About four out of ten sexual assaults take place at the victim's own home. Two in ten take place in the home of a friend, neighbor or relative. And only one in ten take place outside, away from home.
Child Rape also has been up in crime's hands lately. a total compilation of 69,000 over child rape issue have been reported in 2006 in Asia, with more than 9000 from Nepal, 6000 from China and 4000 from Malaysia. With Nepal leading the crime rates of over 100,000 since 1999 to date. Moreover, in Thailand, over 60% of kids have chosen to be a child prostitute earning more millions buds thus placing them the 6th largest earning business in Asia and the largest Red Light District business in the world.
Child sexual abuse is widespread, cutting right across any economic, social, political, religious or race boundaries. It is an issue which is being vehemently addressed right across the political spectrum and it is time that men struggling against both their own and society's sexism began to consider what it is, and what preventative action can be taken. The law also tends to make conviction difficult. Again, a child's word against an adult's may be disbelieved. The court situation is an intimidating one, which can result in children feeling confused, that they are mistaken, that they are partly to blame.Proposals are coming forward to ensure that the legal procedure meets the child's needs. Likewise, police methods as regards child sexual abuse and rape are being brought under a much needed and long overdue scrutiny.
In the legal books, the DEATH sentence is given to ANY forms of child prostitution, pornography or rape cases in most U.S states and Europe. however, crime spreadits wings in Asia. In asia, child sexual abuse is known as Statutory rape, which basically is the crime of sex with a minor under the age of consent (AOC, 18), the age at which individuals are considered competent to give consent to sexual conduct. The law may be strict and punishment is loose. Only a life setence is given on accord of the severity of the abuse and forms of rape. Thus, it is safe to say... the law is NOT doing its job to these offenders.
A quick reference will be the papers just days ago abuot a young girl that got MOLESTED by her DAD. (refer up.. 17% of rape cases comes from relatives.. WTF!) moreover, it happened in their own home (40%). in front of the other family members. Men are animals. Brute and cruel. the lack of sensitivity and sensibility rips the mind apart and forces the desires out to even a young 13-year-old girl. but the law cant do anything can it? a simple life setence is given to the guy and the case actually dragged for two years till just a week ago when the man is finally conviceted behind bars.
Under current laws, having sex with girls under 18 is considered statutory rape, punishable by up to five years in jail and a fine of S$10,000 (US$5900). Prostitution is legal in Singapore but pimping and public solicitation are not. Licensed brothels operate in designated areas, some of them catering to the large community of foreign male workers. note this. its CASH PUNISHMENT and a simple 5 years jail sentence with no CANING or PUBLIC SERVICE involvements.
Efficient is what the legalistive system of Singapore is known for. but what is Effectiveness to it? Crimes does run free. Child abuse? its a sad sad world..
Rape is generally considered one of the most serious sex crimes and can be very difficult to prosecute. Sexual violence can also be a war crime under international law. Consent may be absent due to duress arising from the use, or threat, of overwhelming force or violence, or because the subject is incapacitated in some way such as intoxication and/or underage innocence.
A United Nations report compiled from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of rape or attempted rape were recorded by police annually. The reported data covered 65 countries, including Africa, Singapore, China and even New Zealand. However most rapes-61% are not even reported to police. One factor relating to this is the myth that rapists are strangers hiding in bushes. In reality 38% of victims were raped by a friend or acquaintance, 28% by "an intimate" and 17% by another relative. Only 16% were committed by a stranger to the victim. About four out of ten sexual assaults take place at the victim's own home. Two in ten take place in the home of a friend, neighbor or relative. And only one in ten take place outside, away from home.
Child Rape also has been up in crime's hands lately. a total compilation of 69,000 over child rape issue have been reported in 2006 in Asia, with more than 9000 from Nepal, 6000 from China and 4000 from Malaysia. With Nepal leading the crime rates of over 100,000 since 1999 to date. Moreover, in Thailand, over 60% of kids have chosen to be a child prostitute earning more millions buds thus placing them the 6th largest earning business in Asia and the largest Red Light District business in the world.
Child sexual abuse is widespread, cutting right across any economic, social, political, religious or race boundaries. It is an issue which is being vehemently addressed right across the political spectrum and it is time that men struggling against both their own and society's sexism began to consider what it is, and what preventative action can be taken. The law also tends to make conviction difficult. Again, a child's word against an adult's may be disbelieved. The court situation is an intimidating one, which can result in children feeling confused, that they are mistaken, that they are partly to blame.Proposals are coming forward to ensure that the legal procedure meets the child's needs. Likewise, police methods as regards child sexual abuse and rape are being brought under a much needed and long overdue scrutiny.
In the legal books, the DEATH sentence is given to ANY forms of child prostitution, pornography or rape cases in most U.S states and Europe. however, crime spreadits wings in Asia. In asia, child sexual abuse is known as Statutory rape, which basically is the crime of sex with a minor under the age of consent (AOC, 18), the age at which individuals are considered competent to give consent to sexual conduct. The law may be strict and punishment is loose. Only a life setence is given on accord of the severity of the abuse and forms of rape. Thus, it is safe to say... the law is NOT doing its job to these offenders.
A quick reference will be the papers just days ago abuot a young girl that got MOLESTED by her DAD. (refer up.. 17% of rape cases comes from relatives.. WTF!) moreover, it happened in their own home (40%). in front of the other family members. Men are animals. Brute and cruel. the lack of sensitivity and sensibility rips the mind apart and forces the desires out to even a young 13-year-old girl. but the law cant do anything can it? a simple life setence is given to the guy and the case actually dragged for two years till just a week ago when the man is finally conviceted behind bars.
Under current laws, having sex with girls under 18 is considered statutory rape, punishable by up to five years in jail and a fine of S$10,000 (US$5900). Prostitution is legal in Singapore but pimping and public solicitation are not. Licensed brothels operate in designated areas, some of them catering to the large community of foreign male workers. note this. its CASH PUNISHMENT and a simple 5 years jail sentence with no CANING or PUBLIC SERVICE involvements.
Efficient is what the legalistive system of Singapore is known for. but what is Effectiveness to it? Crimes does run free. Child abuse? its a sad sad world..
Thursday, May 17, 2007
what is love?
Love is a strange and beautiful thing,
It spans time and space, distance is no object to love.
You will wait forever for the one you love,
Travel wherever you need to be with them.
When you are in the arms of the one you love,
That love can make a moment last a lifetime,
Yet make a lifetime seem no more than a moment.
When love is distant it grows strong,
When it returns it flowers.
People crave it, strive for it, fight for it, and die for it,
And when they find it, they know they are complete.
For in the arms of the one we love is wholeness,
Belief, completeness, passion, and security.
The one we love is someone for whom we would do anything,
And never ask for anything in return.
It produces a love of all that person is and will ever be,
Regardless of what that may mean to me.
Love knows that when you are away,
That you are still loved, cherished, thought after, and missed
By the one you love,
And they know that you love them back.
That is Love.
That is my love to you.
It spans time and space, distance is no object to love.
You will wait forever for the one you love,
Travel wherever you need to be with them.
When you are in the arms of the one you love,
That love can make a moment last a lifetime,
Yet make a lifetime seem no more than a moment.
When love is distant it grows strong,
When it returns it flowers.
People crave it, strive for it, fight for it, and die for it,
And when they find it, they know they are complete.
For in the arms of the one we love is wholeness,
Belief, completeness, passion, and security.
The one we love is someone for whom we would do anything,
And never ask for anything in return.
It produces a love of all that person is and will ever be,
Regardless of what that may mean to me.
Love knows that when you are away,
That you are still loved, cherished, thought after, and missed
By the one you love,
And they know that you love them back.
That is Love.
That is my love to you.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Black & white
Black and white,
obaque or transparent,
what am i?
who am i?
invisible or true?
Black and white,
right or left,
which am i?
where am i?
lost or found?
Black and white,
hate or love?
when will i?
how will i?
now or never?
black and white,
contrast in between,
lost for words to match the dif,
now standing before the very same cliff,
do or die,
live or shame,
lost of courage to pull it through,
find no paths to solve this clue,
fight or run,
stay or move,
the will to stay match the will to leave,
the power so strong pulled back for dree.
now or never,
eternal in flames,
lost in transition,
far within the mind..
obaque or transparent,
what am i?
who am i?
invisible or true?
Black and white,
right or left,
which am i?
where am i?
lost or found?
Black and white,
hate or love?
when will i?
how will i?
now or never?
black and white,
contrast in between,
lost for words to match the dif,
now standing before the very same cliff,
do or die,
live or shame,
lost of courage to pull it through,
find no paths to solve this clue,
fight or run,
stay or move,
the will to stay match the will to leave,
the power so strong pulled back for dree.
now or never,
eternal in flames,
lost in transition,
far within the mind..
Saturday, May 12, 2007
Plain white - hey dililah
Hey there Delilah
What's it like in New York City?
I'm a thousand miles away
But girl tonight you look so pretty
Yes you do
Times Square can't shine as bright as you
I swear it's true
Hey there Delilah
Don't you worry about the distance
I'm right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice it's my disguise
I'm by your side
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
What you do to me
Hey there Delilah
I know times are getting hard
But just believe me girl
Someday I'll pay the bills with this guitar
We'll have it good
We'll have the life we knew we would
My word is good
Hey there Delilah
I've got so much left to say
If every simple song I wrote to you
Would take your breath away
I'd write it al
lEven more in love with me you'd fall
We'd have it all
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they've got planes and trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we'll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
Delilah I can promise you
That by the time we get through
The world will never ever be the same
And you're to blame
Hey there Delilah
You be good and don't you miss me
Two more years and you'll be done with school
And I'll be making history like I do
You know it's all because of you
We can do whatever we want to
Hey there Delilah here's to you
This ones for you
What's it like in New York City?
I'm a thousand miles away
But girl tonight you look so pretty
Yes you do
Times Square can't shine as bright as you
I swear it's true
Hey there Delilah
Don't you worry about the distance
I'm right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice it's my disguise
I'm by your side
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
What you do to me
Hey there Delilah
I know times are getting hard
But just believe me girl
Someday I'll pay the bills with this guitar
We'll have it good
We'll have the life we knew we would
My word is good
Hey there Delilah
I've got so much left to say
If every simple song I wrote to you
Would take your breath away
I'd write it al
lEven more in love with me you'd fall
We'd have it all
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
Oh it's what you do to me
A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they've got planes and trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we'll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
Delilah I can promise you
That by the time we get through
The world will never ever be the same
And you're to blame
Hey there Delilah
You be good and don't you miss me
Two more years and you'll be done with school
And I'll be making history like I do
You know it's all because of you
We can do whatever we want to
Hey there Delilah here's to you
This ones for you
the scarred tree
thought of sth meaningful and decided to make a story from it.
once, there was a tree. the biggest, wisest, oldest tree in the forest.
one of which he thought he was the best.
but much as life has taught.
noone's perfect. not even god.
god cannot create a rock he cannot lift. (paradox)
and this tree, he just cannot stop providing shade and fruits for the animals of the forest
one day, the forest had a fire. everyone ran and all that passed him ignored his sayings and refused to let him into the happenings.
the poor old tree was left there alone.
soon, the fire spread and the tree was alone standing before it.
it got burnt badly.. on the front side of his tree.
scarred now is this tree forever, burnt and wounded deep.
the animals came back the following days and apologised and tried to make it up to him.
but it was too late, the tree was scarred forever.
everyone including the tree thought it was the end.. the tree has lost its will to provide shelter.. the tree has lost its will to bear fruits.. the tree was lonely and left there by himself..
but it was not the end.. the wise owl flew by several days later and noticed the crying tree.
'say old tree... why are you crying? you are the wisest, oldest and strongest tree in the forest. you can give shade, give fruits and above all, support people.'
'but what use am i if none were to help me in times of need?what use am i if i cant bear fruits nor gives shade? my leaves are burnt, my branches are broken, my bark is scarred. what use am i as a tree?'
'no fear my friend, scarred you may be now, but only the ones that have been through the burns know the taste of fire. only those who's gone throught the pain knows the cure. my friend, the leaves may be gone but grow them back, the branches may be broken and grow them back, your bark may be scarred but be proud. it symbolises your wisdom, your strength and courage. you know the fire's pain and depth. you can help people go through the fire. you can help people prevent the fire. you know the cure to burns. give shade as forms of helping words. bear fruits as forms of burnt antidotes. for you are the tree. a tree is dug deep in the soil, it stands strong and you can bounce back. life is filled with fire and burns. be proud for that you are scarred. you are not broken and torn down. you are just merely taught a lesson. share the lesson. help the needs. spread freely your leaves and branches. stand firm and stonr gyour roots and stem. be proud of your burns and scars. have faith in yourself.'
nothing is impossible to overcome,
someone out there will help and is willing to lend u a hand.
somone out there must have been through what you are/have.
you are never alone in this world. life comes in pairs.
chromosones are in pairs, gender is in pairs, the sky is paired with contrast.
everything is naturally paired.
noone is alone in this world.
someone out there will be the owl to bring you wisdom.
someone out there will be the tree to guide u through & enlighten u with his experiences.
someone out there will also be the animals that runs away & refuse to help.
but everything is just a blessing in disguise.
each path u take, each move u make,
u will rach a different destination.
but how different can it be?
one thing is for sure.
noone is alone to face challenges and obstacles.
i believe everyone in life have many friends.
the true ones stays and help.
the true ones are the tree and owl if you need.
let the animals run and ignore if they want.
appreciate the owl's wisdom.
learn to seek help from the tree.
rejoice for the animals have left.
be proud of your scars.
you may just be the owl if you try.
you may just be the tree in time.
love everyone as u wish they would unto you.
kindness begets kindness.
it does.. it really does..
never fear your scars and shame it.
never regret the paths u make.
for whatever is done is done.
make the best outta it.
that's life's greatest achievement.
once, there was a tree. the biggest, wisest, oldest tree in the forest.
one of which he thought he was the best.
but much as life has taught.
noone's perfect. not even god.
god cannot create a rock he cannot lift. (paradox)
and this tree, he just cannot stop providing shade and fruits for the animals of the forest
one day, the forest had a fire. everyone ran and all that passed him ignored his sayings and refused to let him into the happenings.
the poor old tree was left there alone.
soon, the fire spread and the tree was alone standing before it.
it got burnt badly.. on the front side of his tree.
scarred now is this tree forever, burnt and wounded deep.
the animals came back the following days and apologised and tried to make it up to him.
but it was too late, the tree was scarred forever.
everyone including the tree thought it was the end.. the tree has lost its will to provide shelter.. the tree has lost its will to bear fruits.. the tree was lonely and left there by himself..
but it was not the end.. the wise owl flew by several days later and noticed the crying tree.
'say old tree... why are you crying? you are the wisest, oldest and strongest tree in the forest. you can give shade, give fruits and above all, support people.'
'but what use am i if none were to help me in times of need?what use am i if i cant bear fruits nor gives shade? my leaves are burnt, my branches are broken, my bark is scarred. what use am i as a tree?'
'no fear my friend, scarred you may be now, but only the ones that have been through the burns know the taste of fire. only those who's gone throught the pain knows the cure. my friend, the leaves may be gone but grow them back, the branches may be broken and grow them back, your bark may be scarred but be proud. it symbolises your wisdom, your strength and courage. you know the fire's pain and depth. you can help people go through the fire. you can help people prevent the fire. you know the cure to burns. give shade as forms of helping words. bear fruits as forms of burnt antidotes. for you are the tree. a tree is dug deep in the soil, it stands strong and you can bounce back. life is filled with fire and burns. be proud for that you are scarred. you are not broken and torn down. you are just merely taught a lesson. share the lesson. help the needs. spread freely your leaves and branches. stand firm and stonr gyour roots and stem. be proud of your burns and scars. have faith in yourself.'
nothing is impossible to overcome,
someone out there will help and is willing to lend u a hand.
somone out there must have been through what you are/have.
you are never alone in this world. life comes in pairs.
chromosones are in pairs, gender is in pairs, the sky is paired with contrast.
everything is naturally paired.
noone is alone in this world.
someone out there will be the owl to bring you wisdom.
someone out there will be the tree to guide u through & enlighten u with his experiences.
someone out there will also be the animals that runs away & refuse to help.
but everything is just a blessing in disguise.
each path u take, each move u make,
u will rach a different destination.
but how different can it be?
one thing is for sure.
noone is alone to face challenges and obstacles.
i believe everyone in life have many friends.
the true ones stays and help.
the true ones are the tree and owl if you need.
let the animals run and ignore if they want.
appreciate the owl's wisdom.
learn to seek help from the tree.
rejoice for the animals have left.
be proud of your scars.
you may just be the owl if you try.
you may just be the tree in time.
love everyone as u wish they would unto you.
kindness begets kindness.
it does.. it really does..
never fear your scars and shame it.
never regret the paths u make.
for whatever is done is done.
make the best outta it.
that's life's greatest achievement.
fatigue
fatigue have gotten to me..
im tired..
so tired..
think im dying soon..
from the mental blockade and physical loss..
no motivation to work..
no motivation to go to school..
no motivation at all..
hmm... should i quit?
keep my day free or keep my night free?
or better yet. kill myself for 2 years and join ren?
den make myself very free for a year..
o well..
im missing my dearest alot..
skipped sch yet again..
high fever..
excessive swelling at my throat..
uber tired..
but someone came along and brightened my day..
made me brand new and of course..
it was none other den...
well u know..
damn.. missed UT and missed norman;s cele..
but still.. i will make it up to him tml. :)
i've got many good friends ard.. i've come to realise how impt they are to me..
i've come to realise how impt i am to them..
but some are just not worth mentioning..
seems like i have that short span of interest problem..
i like working..
but i hate the fatigue..
o well.. love makes me new.. :)
but then again.. i got too much that i want..
just too much.. like what zoee said in her blog..
action = reaction..
i acted.. now im reacting..
:)
fatigue took the better of me today.
im tired..
so tired..
think im dying soon..
from the mental blockade and physical loss..
no motivation to work..
no motivation to go to school..
no motivation at all..
hmm... should i quit?
keep my day free or keep my night free?
or better yet. kill myself for 2 years and join ren?
den make myself very free for a year..
o well..
im missing my dearest alot..
skipped sch yet again..
high fever..
excessive swelling at my throat..
uber tired..
but someone came along and brightened my day..
made me brand new and of course..
it was none other den...
well u know..
damn.. missed UT and missed norman;s cele..
but still.. i will make it up to him tml. :)
i've got many good friends ard.. i've come to realise how impt they are to me..
i've come to realise how impt i am to them..
but some are just not worth mentioning..
seems like i have that short span of interest problem..
i like working..
but i hate the fatigue..
o well.. love makes me new.. :)
but then again.. i got too much that i want..
just too much.. like what zoee said in her blog..
action = reaction..
i acted.. now im reacting..
:)
fatigue took the better of me today.
Wednesday, May 09, 2007
I wanna be loved
I had a roof over head
Had shoes on my feet
Yeah sure I was fed
But no one was there when I was in need...
yeah So who am I now?
Who do you want me to be?
I can forgive you but I won't relive you
I ain't the same scared kid I used to be
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I want to be loved
I want to be loved
I found a picture, our so called family tree...
yeah I broke all the branches looking for answers
Don't you know that it ain't how it supposed to be
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give, I'm ready to try,
willing to lay it on the line
I want to be loved
I want to be!
I ain't gonna cry, I don't want to scream
But I got so much left unsaid inside of me
Taken from
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give, I'm ready to try,
willing to lay it on the line
I want to be loved
I want to be loved
Had shoes on my feet
Yeah sure I was fed
But no one was there when I was in need...
yeah So who am I now?
Who do you want me to be?
I can forgive you but I won't relive you
I ain't the same scared kid I used to be
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I want to be loved
I want to be loved
I found a picture, our so called family tree...
yeah I broke all the branches looking for answers
Don't you know that it ain't how it supposed to be
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give, I'm ready to try,
willing to lay it on the line
I want to be loved
I want to be!
I ain't gonna cry, I don't want to scream
But I got so much left unsaid inside of me
Taken from
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna survive
Don't want the world to pass me by
I'm gonna dream, I ain't gonna die
thinking my life was just a lie
I wanna give, I'm ready to try,
willing to lay it on the line
I want to be loved
I want to be loved
Reminiscence
Hey baby, when we are together, doing things that we love.
Every time you're near I feel like I'm in heaven,
feeling high I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises. Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
I just wanna die in your arms Here tonight
Hey baby, when we are together,
doing things that we love.
Everytime you're near I feel like I'm in heaven,
feeling high I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises. Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
I just wanna die in your arms I don't want to run away,
I want to stay forever, thru Time and Time..
No promises I don't wanna run away,
I don't wanna be alone
No Promises Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
now and forever my love
No promises
missing the times of simplicty,
where truth is misted and never knew...
when times are so silly and fun..
but now..
times are sweet and still so indulged i live..
u make my heart sink deep.
:)
Every time you're near I feel like I'm in heaven,
feeling high I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises. Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
I just wanna die in your arms Here tonight
Hey baby, when we are together,
doing things that we love.
Everytime you're near I feel like I'm in heaven,
feeling high I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises. Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
I just wanna die in your arms I don't want to run away,
I want to stay forever, thru Time and Time..
No promises I don't wanna run away,
I don't wanna be alone
No Promises Baby, now I need to hold you tight,
now and forever my love
No promises
missing the times of simplicty,
where truth is misted and never knew...
when times are so silly and fun..
but now..
times are sweet and still so indulged i live..
u make my heart sink deep.
:)
randomness - poetry
I am beautiful.
so delicate & true.
i see the hope & courage,
of petals in bloom.
as long as i am, i will be,
the flower shall never wilt or die.
i will depend on solely one,
that solely one is me,
i raise my petals high above,
that i shall prosper and bloom above,
i may not be the pick of a patch,
but i am beautiful like the rest.
i will stand as one, but not a lonely soul,
the tears shall shun from my smiles and so,
i live my life so beautifully,
i think of myself as only pure and true.
i am beautiful
____________________________________
They say time is precious,
That time is of the essence,
But what is this illusion?
What is time?
It goes by, they say,
But I don't see anything.
They even say,
How time flies,
Does it have wings?
Never have I seen it,
Never have I understood,
But I do know some things,
I know the time that I'm away from you.
Time is precious.
It is of the essence.
But no time is worth my time,
Unless that time is spent with you.
How time weighs heavily on my heart.
Oh, how time does eat away at me.
Time is not physical, but rather spiritual,
For no time is more spiritual then when you're with me.
i miss you my lovely lady,
i love you so my dearest one,
my darling stargirl..
_________________________
I am a twinkling star
shining high in the sky
with my brother and sister stars
all around me.
And we dance and we sing
with our undying beauty.
And when our sparkling lights burn out
a door closes us and captures us
in a pool of darkness
of which we aren't familiar.
one known only as life
a darkness of force in the mind
it rips it tears it destroys.
but so does the hpoe and light in there
hope can be found in the darkness
the darkness of life.
______________________________________
A man that made an impression on strangers and friends.
Quiet but firm and even more stern.
Strength and courage I have learned from you,
but being without you is hard to do.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
The tears I've shed cannot surpass the smiles and the laughs we had with you.
To feel your pain I could not do,
to feel your joy I cannot explain,
but being without is hard to do.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
A man that defined the word grand as only a real man can.
To know you're in a better place soothes my pain.
Knowing you're happy and always true makes me sane.
A man i am to keep you safe.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
Good man die young.. tahts only cause capable people and rewarded with nothing but more work. think about it, how true isit?
so delicate & true.
i see the hope & courage,
of petals in bloom.
as long as i am, i will be,
the flower shall never wilt or die.
i will depend on solely one,
that solely one is me,
i raise my petals high above,
that i shall prosper and bloom above,
i may not be the pick of a patch,
but i am beautiful like the rest.
i will stand as one, but not a lonely soul,
the tears shall shun from my smiles and so,
i live my life so beautifully,
i think of myself as only pure and true.
i am beautiful
____________________________________
They say time is precious,
That time is of the essence,
But what is this illusion?
What is time?
It goes by, they say,
But I don't see anything.
They even say,
How time flies,
Does it have wings?
Never have I seen it,
Never have I understood,
But I do know some things,
I know the time that I'm away from you.
Time is precious.
It is of the essence.
But no time is worth my time,
Unless that time is spent with you.
How time weighs heavily on my heart.
Oh, how time does eat away at me.
Time is not physical, but rather spiritual,
For no time is more spiritual then when you're with me.
i miss you my lovely lady,
i love you so my dearest one,
my darling stargirl..
_________________________
I am a twinkling star
shining high in the sky
with my brother and sister stars
all around me.
And we dance and we sing
with our undying beauty.
And when our sparkling lights burn out
a door closes us and captures us
in a pool of darkness
of which we aren't familiar.
one known only as life
a darkness of force in the mind
it rips it tears it destroys.
but so does the hpoe and light in there
hope can be found in the darkness
the darkness of life.
______________________________________
A man that made an impression on strangers and friends.
Quiet but firm and even more stern.
Strength and courage I have learned from you,
but being without you is hard to do.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
The tears I've shed cannot surpass the smiles and the laughs we had with you.
To feel your pain I could not do,
to feel your joy I cannot explain,
but being without is hard to do.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
A man that defined the word grand as only a real man can.
To know you're in a better place soothes my pain.
Knowing you're happy and always true makes me sane.
A man i am to keep you safe.
A man with pride in every step he made.
A man with vigor in every phrase.
Good man die young.. tahts only cause capable people and rewarded with nothing but more work. think about it, how true isit?
You kissed my lips and I felt a flutter in my heart,
You touched my hand and lit a spark in my body,
You stared into my eyes and saw straight into my soul,
You put your arms around me and I was finally complete.
when im near you, you make me weak,
your eyes it sparkles and blinds me,
your love it's heavy, so full and filled with the good will and joys and sweetness,
you, its so perfect, its so appropriate, it makes me want you so much more.
You are to me
All that an angel could be
My love for you
Is here for all the world to see
The gleam in your eyes
Is what keeps me alive
You are the vision of beauty
I see in front of me
The minor sound of your sweet voice
Is enough to make my heart rejoice
You're an Angel to me
The most beautiful person
This world shall ever see
A special place in my heart
I shall forever have for thee
You are my love
You are my world
You are this Beautiful Angel to me
You make my world perfect,
you make my world neat,
you make me complete,
you are contagious.
the month spent with you was special,
it gave me new sightings,
i love you, much more now and more to grow.
we have much to share and much have shared.
you mentioned that we dont seem 18?
that only cause we seem to be *lao fu lao qi*
lovers aged together in time,
the present, past and future i speak so much of.
believe it them, trust in them, have faith it will come true.
trust me that u wont regret and i wont give up.
believe me that i will love you deep and long,
have faith in us that time will befriend us,
that our love will stay... last and most important... grow..
Aishiteru.
my love now runs long in the rivers and valleys in our souls,
it flies high and above in our minds and sinks deep within our hearts,
it is solid and strong that it grounds our life,
it is so perfect, tender and oure it brings sweetness forever to us.
my love to you, its genuine.
its eternal, believe me that nth can do us part.
our love is strong and powerful.
always look back to my gifts and remember our promises.
forever,... will u be mine, and me be yours..
reminiscent our times of joys.. for much more will come...
and nothing will end or be less... only changes of more and better will come to pass...
If words could express
My feelings for you
How would you react
If you truly felt it true?
Would you laugh, would you cry
Would any emotion show
Or would you stay silent
And just wish it never goes away?
My heart skips a beat
At the sound of your name
I try to calm down...
I try in vain
To me, you're perfect
None even come close
From the tips of your hair
To the tips of your toes
Into your eyes
I could gaze forever
None can surpass
None is better
I could say, "I love you"
But that's just a start
If only words could express
The feelings in my heart
the deep strong powerful feelings
that grows to say it more
that i love you forever
and eternally im yours.
You touched my hand and lit a spark in my body,
You stared into my eyes and saw straight into my soul,
You put your arms around me and I was finally complete.
when im near you, you make me weak,
your eyes it sparkles and blinds me,
your love it's heavy, so full and filled with the good will and joys and sweetness,
you, its so perfect, its so appropriate, it makes me want you so much more.
You are to me
All that an angel could be
My love for you
Is here for all the world to see
The gleam in your eyes
Is what keeps me alive
You are the vision of beauty
I see in front of me
The minor sound of your sweet voice
Is enough to make my heart rejoice
You're an Angel to me
The most beautiful person
This world shall ever see
A special place in my heart
I shall forever have for thee
You are my love
You are my world
You are this Beautiful Angel to me
You make my world perfect,
you make my world neat,
you make me complete,
you are contagious.
the month spent with you was special,
it gave me new sightings,
i love you, much more now and more to grow.
we have much to share and much have shared.
you mentioned that we dont seem 18?
that only cause we seem to be *lao fu lao qi*
lovers aged together in time,
the present, past and future i speak so much of.
believe it them, trust in them, have faith it will come true.
trust me that u wont regret and i wont give up.
believe me that i will love you deep and long,
have faith in us that time will befriend us,
that our love will stay... last and most important... grow..
Aishiteru.
my love now runs long in the rivers and valleys in our souls,
it flies high and above in our minds and sinks deep within our hearts,
it is solid and strong that it grounds our life,
it is so perfect, tender and oure it brings sweetness forever to us.
my love to you, its genuine.
its eternal, believe me that nth can do us part.
our love is strong and powerful.
always look back to my gifts and remember our promises.
forever,... will u be mine, and me be yours..
reminiscent our times of joys.. for much more will come...
and nothing will end or be less... only changes of more and better will come to pass...
If words could express
My feelings for you
How would you react
If you truly felt it true?
Would you laugh, would you cry
Would any emotion show
Or would you stay silent
And just wish it never goes away?
My heart skips a beat
At the sound of your name
I try to calm down...
I try in vain
To me, you're perfect
None even come close
From the tips of your hair
To the tips of your toes
Into your eyes
I could gaze forever
None can surpass
None is better
I could say, "I love you"
But that's just a start
If only words could express
The feelings in my heart
the deep strong powerful feelings
that grows to say it more
that i love you forever
and eternally im yours.
topic as discussed
seems like the only topic offered is er.. xiaotian?
haha. thus, this is for her.
LOVE IS A BLESSING BROUGHT FROM ABOVE.
WHEN YOU FOUND IT, HOLD IT! KEEP IT! TREASURE IT!
i know you have love, love it, hold it, keep it. :)
LEECHUATIO!
I REMEMBER YOUR WARNING FOR THE KIDNAPPING!
THUS,
HERE IS KIDNAPPER JOSHUA,
GVING HIS REPLY,
THOUGH LATE,
YOU MUST UNDERSTAND HIS SITUATION,
THE KIDNAPPED BITES,
SHE IS A DIFFICULT TARGET AND HAVE BEEN BRINGING LOTS TO ME,
THUS, I HAVE DECIDED TO GIVE HER BACK TO YOU!
TAKE IT AND I NEED NO RANSOM!
thats only cause i already have her. hehe. im hers and she's mine. wee!!!
haha. thus, this is for her.
LOVE IS A BLESSING BROUGHT FROM ABOVE.
WHEN YOU FOUND IT, HOLD IT! KEEP IT! TREASURE IT!
i know you have love, love it, hold it, keep it. :)
LEECHUATIO!
I REMEMBER YOUR WARNING FOR THE KIDNAPPING!
THUS,
HERE IS KIDNAPPER JOSHUA,
GVING HIS REPLY,
THOUGH LATE,
YOU MUST UNDERSTAND HIS SITUATION,
THE KIDNAPPED BITES,
SHE IS A DIFFICULT TARGET AND HAVE BEEN BRINGING LOTS TO ME,
THUS, I HAVE DECIDED TO GIVE HER BACK TO YOU!
TAKE IT AND I NEED NO RANSOM!
thats only cause i already have her. hehe. im hers and she's mine. wee!!!
good people die early
ever wonder why good people die young?
ren & i were talking about it the other day and i think he's right.
good people are the ones capable of doing things... which means in life, when you're capable, you dont have special (good) treatment but, you get even more special (bad) treatment. more work!!
think about it. if you're good at thinking, you get thrown work and problems to solve,
if you're good at programming, you get thrown software and IT to work with.
thus, good poeple will in turn become overworked and soon and definitely, drive them to their limits and thus, their deaths.
why isit however that the lazy ones and simple ones live longer? (proven in a scientifc test)
could it be that they are less worried and affected by many things?
such as the workload or the need to please.
thus, could it be true that working your mind more will kill you earlier?
hmm. seems like being nice is a bad thing now, you think for the others sakes, think for the best possible solutions and even think about ways of achieving things.
thus, i would say, be selective. be nice to the right ones but bite hard when the ones that tramples goes overboard.
to you: you trampled on my tail. one more inch and i bite. try me.
ren & i were talking about it the other day and i think he's right.
good people are the ones capable of doing things... which means in life, when you're capable, you dont have special (good) treatment but, you get even more special (bad) treatment. more work!!
think about it. if you're good at thinking, you get thrown work and problems to solve,
if you're good at programming, you get thrown software and IT to work with.
thus, good poeple will in turn become overworked and soon and definitely, drive them to their limits and thus, their deaths.
why isit however that the lazy ones and simple ones live longer? (proven in a scientifc test)
could it be that they are less worried and affected by many things?
such as the workload or the need to please.
thus, could it be true that working your mind more will kill you earlier?
hmm. seems like being nice is a bad thing now, you think for the others sakes, think for the best possible solutions and even think about ways of achieving things.
thus, i would say, be selective. be nice to the right ones but bite hard when the ones that tramples goes overboard.
to you: you trampled on my tail. one more inch and i bite. try me.
Accident prone.
alright. sth's up with my com. either its virus infected or just that blogger's messing with me. o, what the heck, it doesnt matter. im in a good mood.
ok. whr do i start. for starters, this is a pure simple recap of what happened in the past say.. 48hours. what simply means. its boring if u dun care.
so, first of, its my 1st monniversary!!!! congrats to myself and my darling vivien. well, had the surprises instored all worked out well. she was dumb enough to er.. not know theres no school? lol. well... its a blessing in disguise, we went pizza hut and off to work she goes and the night plans came through. real romantic day i hope. hehe.
well,.. i must say im just not cut out for the late night. im just say... not used or rather.. complicating things a little too much all the time. but heck, my darling did a splendid job to cool me down and well... fantastic day/night at her place.
went to work just couple of hours ago where an accident happened and everyone started to panic. one of my colleague even cried. everyone was worried and curious and headed out to get a clear view. all but some, including me, just standing there. wondering..
can ever someone be unlucky enough to be called prone to accident and heartaches? well, personally, i think luck has this driving force in it that keeps people believing. luck in some forms of mythology is a god itself. this god, luck plays with the human mind according to the myth and lets in blessings that rips everything away as pleasure of his point.
people were taking down the license number for a chance in luck, the 4D winnings. this led me thinking.. have luck any play in life?
life is just a maze waiting to be unsolved.
- Paul Dickson
well, life is a maze where theres folkroads EVERYWHERE. every decision may lead into a dead end where even turning back may seem too difficult or impossible. thus, does luck aafect the destination? or even, does fate determine your direction? every decision in life brings in the pros and cons. be it simple or tough, life is filled with the multi decision making sessions and it forms a maze where every time u make a decision, you think u get closer to somewhere, but you never know where the road leads. life is unexpected, life is as a maze.
that's why i think time is precious. a long decision may just end u in a place with no return and worse, even losing much. thus, this maze must be known how to solve before trying.
life is experiencing. if you never take the step, you will never move. staying stagnant at the start and when time runs out, theres nth to look back but much to look forward to yet, time robs it all form you.
but on the other hand, if you took the step and ends up in a wrong place, the decision made somewhere somehow went wrong. thus, it puts you in a dilemma or doing or not. but here's the thing. if you never ever try, you will never ever know. besides. being wrong is much better than being lsot. you must know where you are aiming to head rather than be still thinking all the time.
if life was a maze, im sure i will be the one to light up the dark paths towards the destination that lays your dreams, your fantasies and only your joys. i will be the guide that leads you through, i will be the light that shines your path, i will be the maze even, to see that your life goes meaningful and that our love.. it stays marvelous..
relating back to the topic, the accident left me thinking... people's minds are easy to manipulate, where religion comes in to bring hope. even luck, gives hope to people. even in a situation of accidents where people almost dies.
imust say this, luck is nothing in measure to the wraths of nature, time being the key. time can be the healer or destroyer. dont waste time. time is precious. life is fragile. everyone's prone to accidents. be it now, soon or even later, your life is insignificant to many things in life and these may just end your life sooner than you thought. time comes into place as you must treasure and appreciate every moment in life. be it bad or good, it happens for a reason and is part of the maze. take that step and accept everything that comes. ony den can you be clear of your destination. life is fragile. treasure every moemnt and people.
i treasure you.
i love you.
you are my precious.
my dearest one of all,
vivien my love.
of course, not to mention i treasure my dear friends and family too. :)
ok. whr do i start. for starters, this is a pure simple recap of what happened in the past say.. 48hours. what simply means. its boring if u dun care.
so, first of, its my 1st monniversary!!!! congrats to myself and my darling vivien. well, had the surprises instored all worked out well. she was dumb enough to er.. not know theres no school? lol. well... its a blessing in disguise, we went pizza hut and off to work she goes and the night plans came through. real romantic day i hope. hehe.
well,.. i must say im just not cut out for the late night. im just say... not used or rather.. complicating things a little too much all the time. but heck, my darling did a splendid job to cool me down and well... fantastic day/night at her place.
went to work just couple of hours ago where an accident happened and everyone started to panic. one of my colleague even cried. everyone was worried and curious and headed out to get a clear view. all but some, including me, just standing there. wondering..
can ever someone be unlucky enough to be called prone to accident and heartaches? well, personally, i think luck has this driving force in it that keeps people believing. luck in some forms of mythology is a god itself. this god, luck plays with the human mind according to the myth and lets in blessings that rips everything away as pleasure of his point.
people were taking down the license number for a chance in luck, the 4D winnings. this led me thinking.. have luck any play in life?
life is just a maze waiting to be unsolved.
- Paul Dickson
well, life is a maze where theres folkroads EVERYWHERE. every decision may lead into a dead end where even turning back may seem too difficult or impossible. thus, does luck aafect the destination? or even, does fate determine your direction? every decision in life brings in the pros and cons. be it simple or tough, life is filled with the multi decision making sessions and it forms a maze where every time u make a decision, you think u get closer to somewhere, but you never know where the road leads. life is unexpected, life is as a maze.
that's why i think time is precious. a long decision may just end u in a place with no return and worse, even losing much. thus, this maze must be known how to solve before trying.
life is experiencing. if you never take the step, you will never move. staying stagnant at the start and when time runs out, theres nth to look back but much to look forward to yet, time robs it all form you.
but on the other hand, if you took the step and ends up in a wrong place, the decision made somewhere somehow went wrong. thus, it puts you in a dilemma or doing or not. but here's the thing. if you never ever try, you will never ever know. besides. being wrong is much better than being lsot. you must know where you are aiming to head rather than be still thinking all the time.
if life was a maze, im sure i will be the one to light up the dark paths towards the destination that lays your dreams, your fantasies and only your joys. i will be the guide that leads you through, i will be the light that shines your path, i will be the maze even, to see that your life goes meaningful and that our love.. it stays marvelous..
relating back to the topic, the accident left me thinking... people's minds are easy to manipulate, where religion comes in to bring hope. even luck, gives hope to people. even in a situation of accidents where people almost dies.
imust say this, luck is nothing in measure to the wraths of nature, time being the key. time can be the healer or destroyer. dont waste time. time is precious. life is fragile. everyone's prone to accidents. be it now, soon or even later, your life is insignificant to many things in life and these may just end your life sooner than you thought. time comes into place as you must treasure and appreciate every moment in life. be it bad or good, it happens for a reason and is part of the maze. take that step and accept everything that comes. ony den can you be clear of your destination. life is fragile. treasure every moemnt and people.
i treasure you.
i love you.
you are my precious.
my dearest one of all,
vivien my love.
of course, not to mention i treasure my dear friends and family too. :)
Friday, May 04, 2007
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Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
down deep
or high up
i will be there.
i promise.
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
down deep
or high up
i will be there.
i promise.
Compassion
What compassionate and heart-warming people sin__poreans are.
not meaning to discrimate or verbally abuse people but,
come on.. how hard is it to take just a small step to help and lend aid to those who needs?
come on.. how hard is it to to just help instead or pointing the finger? worse yet, turning an eye away is just an act of cowardice. not wanting to help is the same as killing the needy ones.
let me explain.
first of, from personal experience.
ever been in a tight situation where everyone just plainly watch and comment yet noone lend their helping hands?
well imagine this, getting caught between the bus door and frame and REPEATEDLY slamming it against the head's of a kid. note this. it is a KID.
why? how nice of them to be going..
'Hey hey, look, he's bleeding.'
'o yea, he is.'
the pillars to the future of sin__pore.
the lack of initiative, motivation, compassion and above all else, integrity and pride.
how amazing the world will be when these 'Pillars of the future' take the world by STORM. (literally storm - THUNDER STORM)
having the lack of more than just the upbringing and pampering of parents, these pillars have taken for granted the peaceful and simple life of their education and support of the government to the extend that the HIGHER EDUCATED students a.k.a CATHO__C HIGH students fail to even help the KID when trapped in a situation of helplessness and pity.
much more examples to go such as simple tasks such as ledning a hand to carry some books or heavy things from people that you can OBVIOUSLY see that they need it. but some just oblivionly just ignore! even if they dont need it, a simple question like, 'can i get that for you?' will surely brighten his day. how difficult is it?
sure as hell people say that being nice will be taken for granted by,
but think about it this way.
what's worse is taking into heart that life is to be mean.
reasons are simple.
1) being mean causes negativities. it is proven scientifically that it uses MUCH MORE muscles to frown den to smile. further, it is also proven scientifically that cheerful and optimistic people have the tendency to allow blood circulation better and healthier lifestyle resulting in a longer life and better immunity system towards diseases and illnesses. thus, why risk to shorten your life by fretting and worrying over unnecessary things and causing frownings and sadness.
yet also, proven AGAIN by scientific evidence that sadness and tears from overwhelming grief and sorrow causes muscles in the eyes to go beyond their limits resulting in a risk of eye injury and death of eye cells causing a greater cahnce to have weakened eyesight.
thus, being mean will make someone DIE early because you caused a degree of influence towards their emotions and well, if you are mean in a consistent manner, time to be reflecting yourself my friend. by causing grief, you give yourself grief as well. as well, re-read this paragraph will ya?
2) giving is living
Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us.
-Earl Nightwood
Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking.
-many people
Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting.
-Princess Diana
well, our attitude in life forms our character. when you help, you receive help when needed.
by giving help, you feel good. by lending a helping hand, you become 'nice'
NICE may be an overly used word that ahs lost its meaning but, being nice is simply put,
-the act of charity and goodwill-
kindness begets kindness. true enough when you give help, the degree of acceptance is received by individuals be it big or small and they will surely and definitely remember it. whether they return the favour depends entirely on the degre they accept the help and the extend of help given. but think about again. what bad can be caused for making more goodness around? rather than fear and worry over the lies and dark truth that cannot be revealed cause of harms did, going an extra mile by helping and actually being there brings in much more smiles than you could expect.
3) life is a journey not a consequence.
One man can make a difference
-spiderman
(awesome movie btw.)
Happiness is not a reward - its a consequence.
Suffering is not a punishment - it is a result.
life is a journey. the mistakes you make, the choices you choose, the paths you take,
they are all the journey at work. life is the biggest opportunity to make a difference. to make it matter. once in this lifetime, you can be who you want to be, dare to take the step, dare to make the risk.
thus, what's most important in this journey is the discipline.
the discipline to act, to control and to take pride.
you must have the initiative to work, to ability to take challenges and make sacrifices and the control of what to do and what not to. and above all, take pride of your achievements, be it failure or success, this journey is yet to end so soon.
if being mean is what you think you should do to keep out of trouble, you have just lost half the journey. the journey to a better being, the journey to something higher and betterthan what you thought you could be.
thus, my question post to my dear readers is this..
have you made a difference?
do you have the compassion and hand to lend?
are you gonna be special?
if so, congrats. you are on the journey to a greater place.
if not, not too late to think about it now. life is not short. but, its not that long either. make the best out of it.
not meaning to discrimate or verbally abuse people but,
come on.. how hard is it to take just a small step to help and lend aid to those who needs?
come on.. how hard is it to to just help instead or pointing the finger? worse yet, turning an eye away is just an act of cowardice. not wanting to help is the same as killing the needy ones.
let me explain.
first of, from personal experience.
ever been in a tight situation where everyone just plainly watch and comment yet noone lend their helping hands?
well imagine this, getting caught between the bus door and frame and REPEATEDLY slamming it against the head's of a kid. note this. it is a KID.
why? how nice of them to be going..
'Hey hey, look, he's bleeding.'
'o yea, he is.'
the pillars to the future of sin__pore.
the lack of initiative, motivation, compassion and above all else, integrity and pride.
how amazing the world will be when these 'Pillars of the future' take the world by STORM. (literally storm - THUNDER STORM)
having the lack of more than just the upbringing and pampering of parents, these pillars have taken for granted the peaceful and simple life of their education and support of the government to the extend that the HIGHER EDUCATED students a.k.a CATHO__C HIGH students fail to even help the KID when trapped in a situation of helplessness and pity.
much more examples to go such as simple tasks such as ledning a hand to carry some books or heavy things from people that you can OBVIOUSLY see that they need it. but some just oblivionly just ignore! even if they dont need it, a simple question like, 'can i get that for you?' will surely brighten his day. how difficult is it?
sure as hell people say that being nice will be taken for granted by,
but think about it this way.
what's worse is taking into heart that life is to be mean.
reasons are simple.
1) being mean causes negativities. it is proven scientifically that it uses MUCH MORE muscles to frown den to smile. further, it is also proven scientifically that cheerful and optimistic people have the tendency to allow blood circulation better and healthier lifestyle resulting in a longer life and better immunity system towards diseases and illnesses. thus, why risk to shorten your life by fretting and worrying over unnecessary things and causing frownings and sadness.
yet also, proven AGAIN by scientific evidence that sadness and tears from overwhelming grief and sorrow causes muscles in the eyes to go beyond their limits resulting in a risk of eye injury and death of eye cells causing a greater cahnce to have weakened eyesight.
thus, being mean will make someone DIE early because you caused a degree of influence towards their emotions and well, if you are mean in a consistent manner, time to be reflecting yourself my friend. by causing grief, you give yourself grief as well. as well, re-read this paragraph will ya?
2) giving is living
Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us.
-Earl Nightwood
Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking.
-many people
Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting.
-Princess Diana
well, our attitude in life forms our character. when you help, you receive help when needed.
by giving help, you feel good. by lending a helping hand, you become 'nice'
NICE may be an overly used word that ahs lost its meaning but, being nice is simply put,
-the act of charity and goodwill-
kindness begets kindness. true enough when you give help, the degree of acceptance is received by individuals be it big or small and they will surely and definitely remember it. whether they return the favour depends entirely on the degre they accept the help and the extend of help given. but think about again. what bad can be caused for making more goodness around? rather than fear and worry over the lies and dark truth that cannot be revealed cause of harms did, going an extra mile by helping and actually being there brings in much more smiles than you could expect.
3) life is a journey not a consequence.
One man can make a difference
-spiderman
(awesome movie btw.)
Happiness is not a reward - its a consequence.
Suffering is not a punishment - it is a result.
life is a journey. the mistakes you make, the choices you choose, the paths you take,
they are all the journey at work. life is the biggest opportunity to make a difference. to make it matter. once in this lifetime, you can be who you want to be, dare to take the step, dare to make the risk.
thus, what's most important in this journey is the discipline.
the discipline to act, to control and to take pride.
you must have the initiative to work, to ability to take challenges and make sacrifices and the control of what to do and what not to. and above all, take pride of your achievements, be it failure or success, this journey is yet to end so soon.
if being mean is what you think you should do to keep out of trouble, you have just lost half the journey. the journey to a better being, the journey to something higher and betterthan what you thought you could be.
thus, my question post to my dear readers is this..
have you made a difference?
do you have the compassion and hand to lend?
are you gonna be special?
if so, congrats. you are on the journey to a greater place.
if not, not too late to think about it now. life is not short. but, its not that long either. make the best out of it.
Thursday, May 03, 2007
CELEBRATE OUR LOVE
Believe in your heart
No matter what the people might say.
The chance you take could take you to the top. (joshua : to the top!)
Listen up
You know you gotta throw your fear away.
Together we can make it
Shake it up baby. (joshua: shake it up, Oooh, oooh, oooh, oooh!)
Hear the voices rock the nation
A calling to the skies
I can see eternity is in your eyes.
Come on everybody theres a party to go to.
Theyre holding out for you! (joshua: wee!)
With every chance you take, a change you make.
The start of something new. (joshua: lets go!)
All around the world they are singing
Calling to the beginning.
Oh oh oh celebrate our love,
people with imagination.
Everywhere a celebration. (joshua: yea!!!!)
Oh oh oh celebrate our love!
Good to be free
Living out our own destiny.
The best will last forever
Never stop. (joshua : never stop!)
Gotta move
You know we gotta groove into the light.
Tonight will be the night that were breaking it up
Break it down baby. (joshua : yea yea)
Oh oh, oh oh, na, na, na, na, na. oh oh, oh oh
Celebrate our love.
Let the rhythm take control
Feel the fire burn within your soul.
Theres a magic in your eyes
Forever we can take the music thru the night.
No matter what the people might say.
The chance you take could take you to the top. (joshua : to the top!)
Listen up
You know you gotta throw your fear away.
Together we can make it
Shake it up baby. (joshua: shake it up, Oooh, oooh, oooh, oooh!)
Hear the voices rock the nation
A calling to the skies
I can see eternity is in your eyes.
Come on everybody theres a party to go to.
Theyre holding out for you! (joshua: wee!)
With every chance you take, a change you make.
The start of something new. (joshua: lets go!)
All around the world they are singing
Calling to the beginning.
Oh oh oh celebrate our love,
people with imagination.
Everywhere a celebration. (joshua: yea!!!!)
Oh oh oh celebrate our love!
Good to be free
Living out our own destiny.
The best will last forever
Never stop. (joshua : never stop!)
Gotta move
You know we gotta groove into the light.
Tonight will be the night that were breaking it up
Break it down baby. (joshua : yea yea)
Oh oh, oh oh, na, na, na, na, na. oh oh, oh oh
Celebrate our love.
Let the rhythm take control
Feel the fire burn within your soul.
Theres a magic in your eyes
Forever we can take the music thru the night.
To my stargirl...
The thought manifests as the word.
The word manifests as the deed.
The deed develops into habit.
And the habit hardens into character.
So watch the thought and its ways with care.
And let it spring from love,
born out of concern for all beings.
True love never lives happily ever after;
true love has no ending.
-K.knight
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
-Mother Theresa
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
-Luciano de Crescenzo
Is it possible
That someone like you
Could complete me?
You're the only one I want
The only one I think about
The only one I truly love
You've may me wrong next time
As I'ill do the same
But everyone makes mistakes
And your not one of mine
Be with me for the rest of time
I'll give you my heart
And you give me your mind
that we may see in time
our love shall magnify
i have nothing more to give you than my heart.
We were two and had but one heart.
i am my darling's and my darling is mine.
just say that you love me, and i shall love you also,
say that you need me and i will be here,
say that you miss me and i will stay here,
say that you want me and i will teleport,
say that you love me, and time shall join with us.
Love is a beautiful dream,
Love is not a matter of counting the years...
But making the years count...
making the dreams real..
making the fantasies true..
let me be your dream,
be your fantasy and hope,
let me deliever you what the world cant,
and let you deliever me what the world missed out.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
-Franklin P. Jones
To love is to take delight in the happiness of another, or, what amounts to the same thing, it is to account another's happiness one's own.
-Gottfried Leibnitz
Love reckons hours for months, and days for years;
And every little absence is an age.
-John Dryden, Amphitryon
To love you is a blessing,
to have you is a delight,
to be loved by you creates tears,
but only tears of joy can be the ones that rolls,
delighted byt he blessing you created,
you made my ride worthwhile.
For years to come, months to pass and days to see,
i love you, loved you and will love you,
through past, present and future.
through the church doors, through the heaven's gates,
through time and everything that passes,
through all obstacles and challenges,
thats my love devotion for you.
The word manifests as the deed.
The deed develops into habit.
And the habit hardens into character.
So watch the thought and its ways with care.
And let it spring from love,
born out of concern for all beings.
True love never lives happily ever after;
true love has no ending.
-K.knight
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
-Mother Theresa
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
-Luciano de Crescenzo
Is it possible
That someone like you
Could complete me?
You're the only one I want
The only one I think about
The only one I truly love
You've may me wrong next time
As I'ill do the same
But everyone makes mistakes
And your not one of mine
Be with me for the rest of time
I'll give you my heart
And you give me your mind
that we may see in time
our love shall magnify
i have nothing more to give you than my heart.
We were two and had but one heart.
i am my darling's and my darling is mine.
Romantic love reaches out in little ways,
showing attention and admiration.
Romantic love remembers what pleases you, excites her, and surprises you.
Its actions whisper, 'you are the most special person in my life.'
just say that you love me, and i shall love you also,
say that you need me and i will be here,
say that you miss me and i will stay here,
say that you want me and i will teleport,
say that you love me, and time shall join with us.
Love is a beautiful dream,
Love is not a matter of counting the years...
But making the years count...
making the dreams real..
making the fantasies true..
let me be your dream,
be your fantasy and hope,
let me deliever you what the world cant,
and let you deliever me what the world missed out.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
-Franklin P. Jones
To love is to take delight in the happiness of another, or, what amounts to the same thing, it is to account another's happiness one's own.
-Gottfried Leibnitz
Love reckons hours for months, and days for years;
And every little absence is an age.
-John Dryden, Amphitryon
To love you is a blessing,
to have you is a delight,
to be loved by you creates tears,
but only tears of joy can be the ones that rolls,
delighted byt he blessing you created,
you made my ride worthwhile.
For years to come, months to pass and days to see,
i love you, loved you and will love you,
through past, present and future.
through the church doors, through the heaven's gates,
through time and everything that passes,
through all obstacles and challenges,
thats my love devotion for you.
Friendship
friends....
Those who care, help and are there to share...
the ones that brightens your days, colours your world, and above all, gives you courage the face the horrors of the world.
friends comes and goes like many have experienced and believed so.
but true ones stays be it hidden or visible, they are the ones that helps, motivates, encourages and always seem to be the top of your phone list when you need them.
lets be honest, how true of a fren have you been?
take a sec and refresh yourself, have you done what others done to do?
as the bible goes, 'Do not to those you wish not them do unto you.'
treat everyone as family and nice enough, they treat you with the same degree of friendliness.
but then again, good people die young and... what's the point of being nice in the first place?
thus the contradicting truth behind living on this world.
who here agrees that friends are important?
but let me just say this, as important they are to you, you gotta appreciate them and treasure them. if not, why should they even bother?
with no fingers pointed, i must say, how many actually learnt to appreciate their friends?
its not something you just say it or just simply share time with them.
appreciating friends has a deeper meaning. you gotta the dos and do nots. you gotta know what is needed to help them with. but even knowing all these might not be enough. you gotta do what you preach. hypocritical friends are just not needed. have you done what is needed to call yourself my fren? have you done what is needed to be called true? ask yourself before saying things.,
life has a funny meaning to it.
the mroe you want something, they more it tends to stretch your limits to achieve it,
dare to sacrifice, dare to take it.
but many says friends are those who lifts you up to greater heights, the ones that brings you to take the things you sought. true? maybe to some, but to me, only the real and true ones does it.
you're all talk and never there. why should i? im done with trying. im done with taking the shits. im done with it.
thus, does friends come and go?
how many actually stays and does their part to be called true? to darely place their footprints onto your lives and say 'i've been here.' instead of, 'hey, i've trampled here!'
think about it now, are the trampling friends that stays for benficial gains or the ones that;s willing to share and help and just stay and be there?
friends? i have many... but...
or true friends? i have the necessary ones. stay if you want, but im done being nice to you.
its a conviction, preference is not enough.
Those who care, help and are there to share...
the ones that brightens your days, colours your world, and above all, gives you courage the face the horrors of the world.
friends comes and goes like many have experienced and believed so.
but true ones stays be it hidden or visible, they are the ones that helps, motivates, encourages and always seem to be the top of your phone list when you need them.
lets be honest, how true of a fren have you been?
take a sec and refresh yourself, have you done what others done to do?
as the bible goes, 'Do not to those you wish not them do unto you.'
treat everyone as family and nice enough, they treat you with the same degree of friendliness.
but then again, good people die young and... what's the point of being nice in the first place?
thus the contradicting truth behind living on this world.
who here agrees that friends are important?
but let me just say this, as important they are to you, you gotta appreciate them and treasure them. if not, why should they even bother?
with no fingers pointed, i must say, how many actually learnt to appreciate their friends?
its not something you just say it or just simply share time with them.
appreciating friends has a deeper meaning. you gotta the dos and do nots. you gotta know what is needed to help them with. but even knowing all these might not be enough. you gotta do what you preach. hypocritical friends are just not needed. have you done what is needed to call yourself my fren? have you done what is needed to be called true? ask yourself before saying things.,
life has a funny meaning to it.
the mroe you want something, they more it tends to stretch your limits to achieve it,
dare to sacrifice, dare to take it.
but many says friends are those who lifts you up to greater heights, the ones that brings you to take the things you sought. true? maybe to some, but to me, only the real and true ones does it.
you're all talk and never there. why should i? im done with trying. im done with taking the shits. im done with it.
thus, does friends come and go?
how many actually stays and does their part to be called true? to darely place their footprints onto your lives and say 'i've been here.' instead of, 'hey, i've trampled here!'
think about it now, are the trampling friends that stays for benficial gains or the ones that;s willing to share and help and just stay and be there?
friends? i have many... but...
or true friends? i have the necessary ones. stay if you want, but im done being nice to you.
its a conviction, preference is not enough.
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