Counter force

seeing how negative image i have portrait in the previous entry, i decided to act on nature's behalf to counter the negativity (i am not emo just for confirmation).

being an optimist as i am, love may be seen as a manipulative system of control and power but, love can also be seen as an emotional encouragement.

being in love have never failed to liven up a person's mood and as said before, it brings in a degreee of optimism to them. life is unfair as said by too many but, it still depends on how you personalise it. a moment of optimism may be legthened and prolonged as long as you want it.

Addicted to the sweet feelings and joys of love? keep them, treasure them. know that trust is the bonding of two that keeps a relationship going. Love may be as important but it is trust that keeps it running, thus, the negativities of jealously and selfishness can be deleted with trust of each other. Communication come in here as a handy aid to help the couple know and understand what's going on.

A simple 5minute talk even in the busiest of times may just be the medicine for arguemsnt and quarrels cause be sure that our better half is no longer better if she/he is sour over a certain issue. trust them that they do have their reasons and logics for being upset and a simple talk may just end it all in reconcilations.

Although some may say that their halves are just unreasonable and too possesive but, where then did their communication and trust fall in place? with trust that each other can understand and know their stands, prioritise and everything can be solved. talk to each other with a simple 5-10mins each day and you may just find yourself still drifting in a wonderland known as love.

be sure that even the greatest negativity can be ruled out like how the game of mind's deceit goes. focus on the big and greater side of the paper rather den the obvious dot (problems) in the middle of the paper.

But of course, if you know your half is a jerk or psychopath, just end it for the better sakes.